This Isn’t Real Africa

Many Europeans (and some Americans) tell me this isn’t “real” Africa.  Apparently South Africa is too urbanized with big cities and night life to be considered a part of “real” Africa. Let’s not forget about the strong European cultural influence that thrives through the Cape Town streets.  I am not too sure what “real Africa” is, but I’m guessing since I haven’t seen a lion walk by me on the street, or I am not living in a hut, South Africa isn’t “real” enough.  If critics would open their eyes and closed minds, they would see the unimaginable living conditions that some people endure.  Cape Town has two of the largest townships (hood) in South Africa.  The abject poverty is apparent.  If these critics open their eyes, they would see people begging on the street at every robot (Traffic Light) in order to survive.

Last week the staff members were at a training to improve the ways things are accomplished at Christine Revel Orphanage.  In this training, they discussed how the children in the orphanage are actually being spoiled and are living better than the average child.  They noticed when a child is released back to their parents, they struggle with the adjustment and actually run away from their regular home life and return back to the orphanage.  At the home, the children receive two snacks, juice/water and three full healthy meals throughout the day.  This is considered growing up privileged.  My heart sank when I heard this because for me eating three meals a day with snacks was not considered growing up privileged.  While growing up I never had to wonder when my next meal was or where I would be sleeping.  The fear of not knowing sends these kids into a panic of just wanting to be back where things are consistent.  I realize that many families in America have struggles with poverty, homelessness and providing food for their children to eat.  It is difficult to see the reality of some people’s lives.

Whether you think it is “real” Africa, South Africa is Africa.  Many people with jobs are struggling to provide for their families.  Even if South Africa isn’t “real” enough, “my kids” are growing up without a family or a loving home.  They don’t get to hug their parents good night, kiss them good bye, or snuggle up under their mom when they are having a bad day.  These are all things I have taken for granted. “My kids” are given the best atmosphere that the orphanage can provide, but it still is not a family.  I guess once I have a pet lion,  I will finally be in the “real” Africa.

Until next time.

Stay Awesome,

Jill

I Hate Packing

AHHHHHHHH! I hate packing. I wish I could just close my eyes and magically make the clothes I need appear. After being a habitual last minute packer for my enter life I tried to change that pattern and gain better habits. That failed miserably. I am sitting here one day away from leaving to go to South Africa and I don’t know what to pack.

The art of packing while on a volunteer trip is to not bring your entire life with you. I am going over to help others, not make a fashion statement. I have to be mindful of the countries customs and social preferences for women before I choose any thing. I will be packing everything I need for the next 6 months into my Osprey Aura 50 hiking pack. This Osprey pack is lightweight, comfortable and can easily fit exactly what is needed. I have packed, unpacked, and packed again before getting the right combination of clothes to take.IMG_0120

My philosophy while packing is, “If I don’t wear it in America I’m not going to wear it in a foreign country.” Different traveling blogs, such as NomadicMatt, and HerPackingList, gave helpful tips and guidelines for the ultimate packed bag.        The main thing is to pack for the weather.  In South Africa it is summer time, Thank God I am tired of the cold!

Here are the clothes I will be living with for 6 months:IMG_0121

Clothes and things

  • 5 light weight t-shirts for volunteering at the orphanages
  • 3 casual t-shirts for working out
  • 2 Columbia Omni-shade button down – easy for hiking
  • 2 long pants- 1 Columbia hiking pants that is light weight
  • 2 long length shorts (fingertip length)
  • Columbia rain jacket- light weight and comfortable
  • 3 work out shorts
  • 2 floor length skirts- for a casual event or church
  • 1 Track/ yoga pants – for travel days
  • 1 bathing suit
  • Chacos– outdoor sandals, great fro all occasions
  • Running shoes- Adidas, durable and light weight
  • Travel sized: lotion, deodorant, conditioner, and other medicines- I will pick up what I need in Cape Town.

With this packing list I am able to dress for any occasion, whether it is the orphanage, hiking, church or anything else that may happen. This is a very nerve wrecking experience and I am ready to embrace it. As my very first trip abroad I am ready for anything. The day to leave is finally almost here.

P.S. instead of packing I started coloring. here is my picture:IMG_0130

Stay Awesome,

Jill